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6 Tips for Parents to Create a Safe Prom and High School Graduation Season

posted May 3, 2013, 11:27 AM by Maria Geueke   [ updated May 3, 2013, 11:33 AM ]
6 Tips to Create a Safe Prom and High-School Graduation Season for Your Teen
April 8, 2011 by Jeff Wolfsberg
Theres something about prom and graduation season that makes rational parents go bonkers. Here are6 tips for parents to help keep their teen safe and make this season one to remember for all the right reasons.

1. Set curfews  Teen car crashes and deaths increase exponentially late at night. If you decide to extend curfews, do not allow large blocks of time that are unaccounted for. Know where your teen is, how longhe will be there, whenhe will be leaving, who is there, and who is supervising the event. In 2008, half of teen deaths from motor vehicle crashes occurred between 3pm and midnight and 56% occurred on Friday, Saturday or Sunday.

2. Do not rent a hotel room  Is anyone really surprised when a tragedy happens after a parent rents a hotel room unsupervised? If a room is rented for teens, an appropriate adult(s) must be there to ensure safety and manage risk.

3. Be up when they come home  My mom told me that her anti-drug plan was coffee and lights. She was wide-awake, lights on, coffee in hand, when my siblings and I came through the door at night. A teens curfew should never exceed the parents ability to stay up. My dads favorite expression was nothing ever good happens after midnight. The older I get, the more true that statement feels to me.

4. Clearly communicate your expectations  Although you may feel youve talked many times to your child about your expectations for healthy choices and the consequences of breaking the rules, the prom and graduation season is an important time to repeat this message. Talk to your child about the dangers of drinking and driving and getting in the car with a drunk driver. Consider role-playing a few scenarios. Research shows that parents who discuss possible scenarios and seek their teens knowledge about what to do increases the chances of their teens safe decision-making.

5. Keep the party local  Dont be tempted to allow your children to celebrate at a far away location, such as a beach or cabin. Allowing your teen to take off to a remote spot with no supervision creates unnecessary risk.

6. Talk with your teen.
Ask: How are you feeling about the prom? What are you most excited about? What are you most nervous about?
Find out who is your teen is going to prom with. Do you know his/her date and/or group of friends? Does your teen knowthese kidswell? Do you?
If you dont know the parents of your teens date and prom group, be sure to get to know them before the big event.
Help your teen enjoy their prom and graduation without drinking or using drugs. Lay down rules that will help them create everlasting memories. The prom is a rite of passage that your teen should enjoy and remember for a lifetime. Help them make it a safe one.

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